Anything that you do because of pressures or opportunities, will only lead you to the end of your true ministry. The things that are done in an effort to make history will at best confine your accomplishments to history, and you will fail to impact eternity. If you do not live what you preach to others you disqualify yourself from the high calling of GOD.
Jas 1:12 Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him.
If we truly love, we will truly forgive. The harder it is for us to forgive, the further we are from true love. Forgiveness is essential, or we will stumble, and in many ways will stray from the course chosen for us.